"The Way of Boys"

I went to a great lecture last night by the author of "The Way of Boys."  Dr. Anthony Rao.  It was really interesting first to just sit and think about my boys social and emotional growth.  What a luxury to just sit and think a bit!  I took a lot away from the lecture - and I bought the book which I am looking forward to reading.  The first thing that I am focusing on - and that I have been thinking about - is what Dr. Rao said "risk taking is good."  I consciously try not to be the nervous mother not letting the boys hang from the monkey bars or jump off of high stairs (I am sure I still am a nervous mother).  They obviously shouldn't be running in the street with cars coming or playing with knives.  But there is a point where they need to climb a tree or jump off the slide.  I know they need to do this as boys.  I stay nearby if there is trouble - but I have to look away to let them be the boys they need to be.  I got so much more out of the lecture - but I want to get into the book and share more later.